Holidays & Entertaining Entertaining The Ultimate Guide to Table Place Settings for Every Occasion Can't remember which side the napkin goes on? Use this guide to set the table, whether hosting a casual family meal or throwing a formal dinner party. By Sarah Martens Sarah Martens Sarah Martens is the Senior Editor overseeing food at Better Homes & Gardens digital. She has been with the BHG brand for more than 10 years. Learn about BHG's Editorial Process Updated on October 16, 2023 Trending Videos Close this video player Whether you keep it simple or go full-on fancy, this place settings guide will help you set your table for an unforgettable night, whether formal or casual. Print our handy place settings guide and hang it inside a kitchen cabinet so it's always on hand when needed. Now, you need a few good recipes, and you're ready to entertain! Download Our FREE Place Setting Guide Casual Place Settings Not every get-together requires formal place settings. Instead, choose something casual when hosting impromptu parties and lunches with friends or family. For casual table settings, the knife and spoon go to the right of the dinner plate; the fork and napkin are placed to the left. The glass goes above the knife. A soup spoon and a salad fork can be added (placed on respective sides in order of use); a cup and saucer may be set to the right. Informal Dinners or Luncheons Add an extra fork for salad and serveware for dessert for informal dinners. You may also choose to add a wine glass to each setting. Arrange the knife and soup spoon to the right of the dinner plate; place the dinner fork and salad fork to the left in order of use. If serving dessert, place a dessert spoon and fork above the plate, pointing left and right, respectively. Arrange glasses, bread plate, and bread knife as directed for formal sit-down meals, below. Adam Albright Formal Place Settings For formal occasions, like holidays, go all out with your place settings. Depending on what you're serving, you'll need multiple spoons, forks, and possibly knives. You can also opt to include bread or salad dishware and utensils, as well as items for serving dessert. You'll also need a cloth napkin for each place, napkin rings (if desired), and place cards. Place a knife (blade edge in) next to the plate. Then, place spoons to the right of the knife in order of use from the outside in. Place forks to the left of the plate in order of use from the outside in. Arrange glasses above the knife, left to right; the water goblet is first, followed by wine glasses, placed large to small. If you're using a bread plate, place it above the forks. A butter knife may be placed across the bread plate. The salad plate is placed left of the forks. The cup, saucer, and coffee spoon are right of the setting, though these are usually brought to the table for formal dinners. The 20 Best Dinnerware Sets of 2023 to Make Every Meal Feel Special Add Decor to Your Table Any place setting design will be enhanced with a centerpiece. Go light and casual for a low-key summer dinner. Take advantage of abundant flowers in your garden or from a local grocery store to make a colorful arrangement. Dried flowers last a long time and can be reused for multiple events. Or take a cue from the holiday dinner you're preparing to create a simple Thanksgiving centerpiece with a focus on candlelight. Christmas can be expensive, but low-cost table decor can help save money. For additional touches, use napkin rings for cloth napkins to add shimmer or texture. Placecards can make it less chaotic when sitting down to eat, and placemats add a layer of color. Experiment with combinations until you find something that works for your event. Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit